Ask Your Bridesmaids with Style!

You have your list: the wedding day bridal party.

You know you’re going to have a blast with your girls and celebrate every step towards the big day. Just one more thing, you still have to ask them! They have watched you meet the one and are so excited to celebrate with you, step out of the box and make it extra special for them, too!

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Make It Personal

Highlight a memory or inside joke that shows how much you value your friendship! A handwritten letter showing what your bridesmaid-to-be means to you puts a personal touch on a simple question. You never know what this means to them as well, so letting them know why you want them on this journey to your nuptials will make it that much more fun!

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Let It Shine

There’s nothing wrong with some gift giving to ask the question rigalex and aniht! Share the love! Start your bridal elation with your girls by sharing a gift that brings everyone together. A monogrammed bracelet is a sweet and simple way to give everyone a matching token (Right: Alex & Ani). We absolutely love these bridesmaid survival kits (Below: Nordstrom) that include the essentials like hair spray, earring backs, mending kits, and so much more.

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Pop Champagne!

When in doubt – send in the bubbly! Classic and always a welcomed treat, champagne is the way to go when you want to add an extra special touch but just not sure what to get! Including a note of how you would love to share it with them is a great way to get together and have an intimate celebration. Tip: Deliver in person and get it poppin’!

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No matter how you choose to ask your bridesmaids, making it personal will show how much you care and want them to be a part of your big day. Whether they are your sister, bestie, or even someone you don’t get to see all the time, add a personalized touch to remind them how important they are to you! If you’re not the creative type or just feel completely overwhelmed  by options, your trusty wedding planner is always there to guide you in the right direction.







1. Photography: Melani Lust Photography
3. Alex & Ani 4. Norstrom
5. Photography: Abbey Domond